They're wrong. I think it depends on how much you freak yourself out about it. But what was worse was the agonizing over getting pregnant while trying. Fear, can come from lack of education about the many different types of birth control. I'm nearly 35, been sexually active for 14 yrs. I've been on BC constantly for about 10 years but I still probably average 2 pregnancy tests a year. In my opinion condom + birthcontrol is always better because you reduce you risk of getting pregnant and depending on the birthcontrol you chose it is less likely to depend on human error. Then I had the IUD removed and started practicing FAM using the natural cycles app. So far we have had no breakages or anything like that. I used to do a lot of stupid risky stuff earlier and so I've had nearly 5 scares. Even before I was far enough for the test to be positive, I could tell there was something terribly, terribly wrong with my body. I knew I didn't want kinds at 21, and the sex I had was always with a low level of anxiety. I swore to myself as a little girl I would never let myself get pregnant and then stupid me lets myself get compromised by a bit too much alcohol and apparently I deserve to be raped if I get blackout drunk in this society. It's just a fear that I have to overcome. It seems like every girl I talk to has had at least 1 pregnancy scare. Hello money, what kind of shenanigans should we get into today. I've never had a pregnancy scare. If you are hopeless at taking the pill, then get something like Implanon that you can't forget. I spend literally 9 months worrying I'm gonna get a call or text. Maybe it'll work for OP. I've never had a problem with mine and I've had it for about 8 years (the copper lasts longer than the Minerva). It's horrifying to even think about. Promised my Firstborn to a Witch, Now Exploiting the Loophole. I've been on BC since my teens and I'm in my mid 20s now. And to confirm your worst fears, yes, omg, being pregnant was the worst thing I have ever experienced in my life. It's just nerve wracking I guess...I want to have relationships and be intimate, but the whole pregnancy thing is unthinkable and disturbing to me. Only 1 turned out to be an unplanned pregnancy. I track my cycle and use condoms. After that, we decided to try for a baby. Three times. No, and we have for the last 4 months or so. I have tokophobia, and getting raped is something that I find doubly frightening for the exact reason you described. It was awful and I will never get pregnant again. I just want to say that what happened to you wasn't your fault. I have no idea truly common it is, but I'm sure it has to do with how educated you are about pregnancy and birth control, and how accessible BC is in certain regions. All body fluids gross me out and I have a low libido anyways so I decided sex was stupid and quit having it. But you need to asses for yourself how willing you are to take risks, and always have plan B, C etc in case it birthcontrol/condom fail. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit. Upvoted you, cause I agree. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. Set alarms in your phone to take your pill(s). I am in a committed long term and STD free relationship so all I want is pregnancy prevention. I remember back when I was just on the pill, and if my period was even a day late-- I'd freak. Also, using 2 or 3 methods of contraception at one time (if you are lucky enough to be able to use them) basically brings your risk of pregnancy down to nil so please consider that as well. I just like to be sure..... A baby is the LAST thing I need at 23. I had no signs whatsoever of having an infection until I had a high fever that didn't go away. You need plans for everything. Condoms that go on the penis work 85% of the time.
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